According to a study conducted by WeddingWire, around one-third of people getting married find wedding roles for their dogs.
It makes perfect sense, considering that most Americans consider their pets among the most important people in their lives.
Dogs also make beautiful wedding photo subjects with nature, flowers, and (if you’re a sartorial type) doggie wedding fashion, adding a bit of artistry to your images.
If you are getting married in a few months and want to find the perfect wedding role for your dog, consider the following:
A pup for all seasons
Making your pooch part of your wedding begins with knowing their personality and assigning them the appropriate role.
Researchers of pet behavior have found that dogs can have personalities that are energetic or calm, quick to learn or a little distracted, and sociable or introverted.
Traditional roles for dogs in wedding celebrations include ring bearer, best pooch (part of the bridesmaids or groomsmen’s entourage), or pooch of honor.
However, if your dog is the shy, retiring type who may get overwhelmed by large groups, you may bring him along for the pre-reception photographs with the bride and groom.
Dogs in the spotlight
If your dog is highly trainable and you enjoy music and dance, including your pup in a quick wedding reception dance is a memorable way to share his importance in your life with your friends and loved ones.
A few tricks your dog can perform to music include walking in reverse, twisting or spinning around, and walking on two legs.
Your dog can also participate in a short but sweet show, surprising guests by jumping through a hoop, spinning, and crawling commando-style.
Make it safe and comfortable for your dog
If your dog is very young, a senior, or has a health condition that may make him tired, consider including him in a few meaningful photos.
If his health is good, but you still don’t want to tire him out, consider a relatively easy role — such as guest of honor.
Your dog can attend the ceremony but be taken home by a trusted family member or friend right after to enjoy a restful nap while you celebrate with guests.
For outdoor weddings, whether at a scenic beach venue like Laguna Beach, a lush garden, or a rustic countryside setting, it’s essential to consider additional preparations for your pup.
Ensure a shaded area or canopy protects him from the sun, bring plenty of fresh water, and pack items like a cooling mat or portable fan to help him stay comfortable.
Hire a pet sitter so friends and family can enjoy the wedding, especially if the celebration is far from home.
Finding the perfect wedding outfit for your dog
Many couples go all-out when it comes to dressing their pooch for a wedding, purchasing a doggie tuxedo or wedding dress for their pet.
Many dogs feel uncomfortable when dressed in costume, though, and a full-body outfit can be uncomfortable in the spring and summer.
You can circumvent this by using simple accessories such as flower clips in your dog’s hair (if he has long hair) or a soft flower necklace or wreath (which can be removed once the photographs have been taken).
If you opt for natural flowers, ensure they are safe for dogs. Roses, African violets, asters, lilies, and hollyhocks are good choices.
Help your dog enjoy the big day
To ensure your dog feels comfortable during your wedding, familiarize them with the venue beforehand.
Bring your dog along during the rehearsal, or make a separate visit so they can explore the space and get accustomed to the environment. This familiarity can help reduce anxiety when the big day arrives.
Introduce your dog to the guests gradually. Before the ceremony, have friends and family members gently greet your dog, allowing them to approach at their own pace.
Providing treats can create positive associations with unfamiliar people. If your dog is shy, consider setting up a quiet space away from the main festivities where it can retreat if it feels overwhelmed.
Bring your dog’s favorite blanket or toy to create a comforting environment.
If your dog shows signs of anxiety, such as panting, pacing, or excessive barking, it’s essential to address their needs.
Take a break by stepping outside or to a quieter area where your dog can relax and decompress.
Using a pet sitter to care for your dog can also alleviate stress for you and your dog. This person can monitor your dog throughout the event, ensuring they receive attention and comfort when needed.
Find the right wedding role for your dog
For most Americans, dogs are vital family members. Therefore, it is logical that many couples wish to include their dog in their wedding.
If you wish to do the same, find the right role for your dog, train him (teaching him to behave well socially and to learn new tricks if you wish), and ensure he is safe and rested while you celebrate.