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How to deal with grief after losing a pet

Posted April 19, 2022

Man sits on bench near dog collar. Man copes with grief after dog dies.
When a pet dies, it’s perfectly normal to feel grief. It’s OK to express your sadness, disappointment, or anger.

When a pet dies, it can be traumatic. Pets can become family without you even realizing it. We spend much of our time taking care of our pets, loving and feeding them, and enjoying their company. When they pass away, you feel as though you have lost someone very close to you.

So how can you deal with the grief after losing a pet? Let’s explore this now:

Cope with the loss

When a pet dies, chances are you’ll be feeling quite upset. This is perfectly normal. It’s OK for you to express your sadness, disappointment, or anger. It’s OK for you to express your feelings in a way that is not harmful to you or others.

After your pet has passed, you may need to decide what you’d like to do with your pet’s remains. Some people choose to keep them in personalized pet urns; others place them in pet graves. Whatever you decide to do, do it in such a way that helps you to deal with your loss.

Understand the stages of grief

There are different stages of grief, and many people refer to them while they’re grieving. The stages are:

  1. Denial
  2. Anger
  3. Bargaining
  4. Depression
  5. Acceptance

There is no right way to experience grief. Some people may feel angry before accepting the death. Others may become depressed before they reach the bargaining stage. Most people eventually reach the acceptance stage.

If you are struggling to deal with the loss of your pet, please ask for help. You may find that speaking to your doctor or hearing other people talk about the loss of their pet can help.

Help your children understand their feelings

If you have children, they may find it hard to understand what’s happened. Try to be honest with your children and explain that the pet died. Make them understand that it was not their fault that their pet died.

Be honest and be prepared to answer your children’s questions about the death of their pets. Talking about it can help them understand what has happened and lead to acceptance.

Remember your pet

Some people choose to hold a memorial service or funeral for their pets. Scattering your pet’s ashes or keeping them in a jar is an excellent way to remember them. Some people choose to bury their pet’s collars to mark their passing.

The important thing is that you give yourself time to grieve. Think about all the good times you had with your pet and when they made you smile. Put some photos up and keep some keepsakes nearby. They can help you to remember your pet. Perhaps you could plant some flowers in their favorite spot in your yard or place a stone there instead. Do what you want to make sure you remember your pet fondly.

Give yourself time to grieve; allow yourself to feel sad about the loss of your pet. Remember the good times you had with your pet, and be prepared to ask for help if you’re struggling.

 

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